Has anyone ever accused you of being angry? Notice I didn’t ask you if you ever are
angry, but I specifically used the word “accused.” Accused implies there is something necessarily bad about
anger. Many people mistakenly make
anger synonymous with inappropriate behavior or abuse. To be angry is often presented as
tantamount to a moral failure on par with lying or cheating. Consequently, we fall into the trap of
not acknowledging when we are angry, or feeling that we need to confess our
anger and apologize for it.
A few years ago, I was angry with a guy named Fred,
a friend who had dealt very dishonestly with me and hurt me. So, I confronted
Fred about it. Rather than deal
with what Fred had done to me, he responded by being hurt. I hadn’t said or done anything
inappropriate in my confrontation with Fred. Nevertheless, he was hurt because I was angry and people
shouldn’t be angry with Fred.
Therefore the whole conversation became about Fred’s feeling hurt,
rather than his dishonesty. It was
as if, my being angry negated wrong Fred had done to me.
Unfortunately, I bought into Fred’s mindset and
felt guilty about being angry with him.
Consequently, when telling the story to my friends, I kept denying that
I was angry with Fred. Finally, a
friend confronted me and said, “Why can’t you just admit you’re angry with
Fred. So what? What’s wrong with
that?”
I replied, “Well apparently, it’s a big deal to
Fred.”
The more I though about it, the more I realized
that there was nothing wrong with me being angry at Fred. I had every right to be angry with
him. I hadn’t done or said
anything inappropriate to Fred. I
was justifiably angry.
In the years since, I realize that Fred’s reaction
was really just designed to manipulate and control me. I have learned the hard way that,
consciously or unconsciously, many people use this technique. When confronted with their own bad
behavior, they respond, not by addressing the issue, but by being hurt by the
anger their own behavior induces in others. You may have someone in your life who does that to you. Or you may be the person who does that
in another’s life (and if you’re both here today, you’re not going to be able
to do that anymore). Either way,
it stems from the idea that anger is always a bad thing.
For me, somewhere in my upbringing was this
deep-seated notion that getting angry was wrong - even a sin. I had been socialized to believe that
good people never got angry. I was
indoctrinated to think that Christians especially, never got angry. We are always supposed to be nice,
pleasant and dispassionate.
Somehow we get this misguided notion that followers of Jesus are never
supposed to get angry because Jesus never got angry.
In reality, Jesus got angry often. Perhaps, you’re thinking, “Sure I know
about that whole turning over the tables in the Temple incident, but that was
just one time.” For some
Christians, that story let’s them have a briefly macho Jesus to make up for the
wimpy Jesus who let’s himself get killed a few days later without fighting back.
In reality, the Gospels convey several incidents of
an angry Jesus, in addition to the Temple cleansing. The truth is Jesus was not a pleasant guy to be around
if you got on his bad side. Just
ask the fig tree he cursed in Mark 11.
We can easily accept the idea that not everyone who met Jesus liked him,
or felt good about him. But it’s
harder to accept the idea that Jesus didn’t like everyone he met nor did he
always make them feel good. Maybe
that’s because we imagine that if Jesus met us, he would like us. Or if Jesus met us, he would make us
feel good. And certainly, if Jesus
met us, he wouldn’t get angry with us.
As uncomfortable as it makes us, Jesus did get angry. Our discomfort stems from the fact that, as I said, many of us were socialized to think anger is always wrong or is even sinful. On a purely logical level we could deduce that since we believe Jesus was sinless and since Jesus got angry, therefore anger cannot be a sin. Such theological formulations may satisfy our intellects, but still leave us feeling uneasy with an angry Jesus.
Therefore, perhaps we need to look at the times
Jesus got angry and especially the kinds of things that provoked his
anger. Interestingly, his anger
was not provoked by people’s moral shortcomings, sexual habits or personal
failures. In other words, none of
the things Christians get angry about today. Instead he was angered by people’s cowardice, hypocrisy, self-promotion
and interest, and cold-heartedness.
In other words, all the things people think about Christians today.
Let’s look at that last one, cold-heartedness. The stories about Jesus’ disciples
plucking grain, or healing a man with a withered hand are certainly about
Sabbath controversies and legalism.
However, on their deepest level they are really stories about people’s
cold-heartedness toward the plight of their fellow human beings.
First, we have the grain plucking controversy. Jesus’ disciples are walking through a
field, they get hungry, pluck some grain and eat it as a quick snack on the
go. Big deal, you may think. Yet for Jesus’ critics, it was just the
sort of screw-up they were looking for.
When Luke’s Gospel tells this story, it adds the detail that the
disciples rolled the grain in their hands. For an expert in Jewish laws, that constituted threshing
which is strictly prohibited in Deuteronomy Chapter 5 and Exodus Chapter
34. Therefore Jesus and his
disciples are lawbreakers and clearly not of God. All this deduced from the simple bodily function of eating.
In response, Jesus first gives a rabbinical argument. He cites how David once violated the Law in order to feed his men and ate bread from the Temple that no one but the priests were supposed to eat. We can easily come away from Jesus’ argument with the idea that he was claiming that such laws were mere technicalities. However, let’s keep in mind that one person’s technicalities are another’s core values. I think Jesus understood that, so he takes things even further.
He says the Sabbath was made for humankind and not
humankind for the Sabbath. In
other words, God gave human beings the law not so they would follow it
slavishly in order to elevate the Law.
God gave human beings the Law in order to elevate human beings. God’s ultimate concern is not the
Law. God’s ultimate concern is not
religion. God’s ultimate concern
is for the good of human beings.
Ponder that for a moment. God’s ultimate concern is for your welfare ad for mine. Certainly there were Jews at the time
who also believed that. But for
this group of fault-finding stuffy legalists, it must have sounded threatening
and heretical. It was as if Jesus
was pulling back the curtain on their religion and revealing what was truly
behind it. In fact, he even uses a
phrase from apocalyptic literature to express it. Apocalyptic means “unveiling” and Jesus unveils a deep
truth. Referring to himself in a
term from Jewish apocalyptic literature he claims that the Son of Man (that’s
him) is Lord even over the Sabbath.
The Sabbath was a unique and indentifying aspect of being Jewish. Who God was in Jesus takes precedence
over all our cherished notions of religion and self- indentity.
As if that wasn’t enough, Jesus then enters the
synagogue and encounters a man with a deformed hand. He calls him out to stand in the middle of the room, in the
middle of a worship gathering.
Jesus is deliberately provocative, as all good preachers should be. He isn’t seeking to make a beautiful
peaceful church experience that feeds people or makes them feel good. He is looking for a confrontation and
he knows he is about to become angry.
The other religious folks are watching him, the
text says, to see what he would do.
They’re trying to catch him.
Know people like that? We
talked about this a few weeks back, how when we join in God’s restorative
purposes in the world, the critics come out of the woodwork. When you claim to follow God or Jesus,
there are people in this world who will just look for you to make a mistake.
They want to catch you doing something wrong. They want to catch church leaders or pastors in mistakes or
point out their faults. Their more
concerned with others doing wrong, then with themselves doing right. (Right now
some of you may be saying, “Well aren’t you just pointing out their
faults?” Yes and you’re just
playing word games with me.)
These are the people Jesus dealt with and these are
the people who made him angry.
Jesus provocatively asks these busy-bodies, “So is it lawful to do good
on the Sabbath or to do harm?” He
is implying that he is capable of healing this man with a withered hand, and
that for him to do nothing just because it’s the Sabbath would be as bad as if
he caused the man harm.
Then here’s the key part of the text. It says Jesus looked around at them
with anger - anger. Think about
the angry Jesus staring them down.
That makes us uncomfortable.
Not just us, it made the later Gospel writers of Matthew and Luke
uncomfortable too. So much so that
they redacted the word “angry” from their version of the story, even though
they almost certainly had Mark’s version in front of them as they wrote.
What was it? What could possibly make Jesus so
angry? The text says he was
grieved by the hardness of their hearts.
Other translations say they had “closed their minds,” or “they were so
stubborn and wrong,” or as the New English Bible puts it, it was their
“obstinate stupidity.”
Traditionally, many Christians would say this is a story about the legalism of Jewish Pharisees, which makes it so specific as to let us off the hook. But that’s not what this story is about. Jesus was angry about their legalism but he was neither anti-Law nor anti-Jewish. Nor was he preaching about grace versus law, in the manner of Paul or a sixteenth century Protestant Reformer. What angered Jesus about legalism was that legalism elevated rules to be more important than people. Behind valuing rules over people is the idea that I follow this rule, and you don’t. Therefore, I am a better person than you are. Therefore, I can be cold-hearted about you.
In healing the man with the withered hand, Jesus
was unveiling the in-breaking of God’s new world and reality. The people of this world are
withered and hurting. Sure it’s
because of evil and sin, but you people are just pointing your finger and quoting
the Bible at them. To be a part of
God’s Kingdom, you need to be calling them into middle of the community and
healing them. That’s a very
different image of church isn’t it?
Look at the reaction of the religious folks. Jesus had challenged them with the
question of which is better to do on the Sabbath, to do good or to kill and
destroy. Well, the story ends with
not with them walking off inspired to do good. They don’t leave the encounter motivated to bring healing
into the world. They leave their
encounter with the angry Jesus, wanting to destroy him. It’s the first mention of Jesus’ death.
That says a lot, doesn’t it? If you and I are not to end up like
them, we must do something different.
Counterintuitively, I would like to suggest that that difference must
begin with our anger. We must get
angry at the same things that angered Jesus. In order to be the church, we must be angry at the
cold-heartedness and indifference this world often displays toward human
suffering. We must get angry when
people follow the rules of what makes good economic sense, or what’s good for
us and our kind, or what nice religious people are supposed to do, while
hardening our hearts toward the suffering of others.
We need to be angry about the right things. The church has been at its worse when it has been angry about people not following the rules. That has lead to witch hunts, inquisitions, and hurting people streaming our of doors burdened with guilt and shame. Conversely, the church has always been at its best when its been angry about cold-heartedness toward human beings, even when that cold-heartedness resided in the church. The church has been at its best when it has been angry about slavery, civil rights, poverty, sexism, war, and violence.
Think of the arguments that vex Christians today,
issues like abortion and homosexuality.
Imagine how different these conversations would be, both for members of
the right and left, if we approached these conversations in this way. Imagine all the misguided and anger
handled inappropriately that would be avoided. Instead of just following the rules, whether secular or
sacred, or just quoting either the Bible or court decisions, what if we opened
our cold hearts to suffering of others?
What if we got angry about practices that deny life and fullness of life
to every human being. As we can
see, the path of Jesus would lead us beyond comfortable religious or political
categories.
Next time something gets you angry, ask yourself if it’s something that would make Jesus angry too. If it is, let God do something constructive with that anger. Like Jesus, take that anger and reach out, not with destruction, but with healing.
Sometimes the heat of anger is just what we need to allow God to thaw out our cold hearts.
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